Domestic Violence is defined in the Family Law Act 1975, as violent, threatening or behaviour that controls or coerces another person such as a spouse, partner or child and make them feel frightened for their well-being and safety. Some example of domestic violence include but not limited to:
How do I get my violent spouse to leave the home?
If you are experiencing violence in the home and feel unsafe, it is very important that you report this to the Police as soon as possible. The Police will take a statement and assess your situation. They may issue an urgent apprehended domestic violence order which restrains your ex-spouse from coming or living in the same home with you.
You can also apply to the court for an order which gives you sole occupation of the home. This means that your ex-spouse will be legally prevented from coming to the home.
Once you get a sole occupation order you can change the locks, even if you are not the legal owner of the home.
The children don’t want to see the other parent what should I do?
If your children have been abused by your ex-partner or there is a risk of abuse to your children, it is imperative that the children are safe when spending time or communicating with the other parent. Children’s right to be safe overrides any parental relationship. It is very important that you obtain experienced domestic violence advice. Katy Jenkins is not only a specialist divorce lawyers, she is also a member of NSW Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence in Australia
It is a sad reality that many families continue to experience domestic violence behind closed doors. The incidence of domestic violence in Australia is alarming. Statistically year after year, we know that women and children are the victims of domestic violence, which is perpetrated by an intimate partner, spouse or parent. We know that one woman a week dies as a result of a domestic violence act and every 15 minutes the police are called to a domestic violence incident across NSW.
Domestic Violence is not confined to one socio-economic group, religion or culture or heterosexual relationships. It is found across a broad section of the community – from the wealthiest and most educated to those who experience financial and social disadvantage to those in gay and lesbian or bi-sexual and other intimate relationships.
Domestic violence has been characterised as 4 types:
The Family Court of Australia and the Federal Circuit Court of Australia have developed the “Best Practice for Family Violence in Parenting cases” which recognises that domestic violence harms and is dangerous to children. Where domestic violence is found by the court, it will override the child’s right to a meaningful relationship with their parent.
Importantly the court does not require independent proof of the allegations of the domestic violence. The court recognised in 2009 in the matter of Amador & Amador that domestic violence happens behind close doors where there are no witness, other than the victim and children.
The information provided here is not legal advice. It is intended as general information. For expert advice, contact us today.
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